In the 1980s we believed that anything was possible for anyone involving love relationships. Many best-selling books say the same thing, even that the ideal love life, anything you want, is "your birthright," and all you need to do is follow their advice to fulfill your dreams.
Since then, our empirical research involving spirituality, personality assessment, and relationships, including observing thousands of love relationships as a matchmaker and writing a book about soul mates, we have found that there exist many love life hopes and downright falsehoods that afflict the lives of even the most intelligent people.